Thinking Before Speaking

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Thinking Before Speaking

 

“A fool is made more of a fool when their mouth is more open than their mind,” — Anthony Liccione

Thinking before speaking may save us from an uttered blunder, but putting this into practice and living it may actually be more beneficial than saving us from an embarrassing conversation contribution. Communicating correctly and speaking with intent helps us within our personal and business relationships.

Being clear and decisive about what you mean when you say it, keeps others from having to interpret your intent. Words are powerful and cannot be unsaid or unheard once said; thinking first can lead to impactful conversations without regret or the need for apology.

How to Think Before You Speak:

  • Pause and think - think about what you are about to say and the repercussions it may have.
  • Analyze and filter - is it appropriate, am I revealing too much?
  • Pause and question to clarify - asking questions helps to provide appropriate responses
  • Sometimes not responding is a good response - try a smile, a shrug, or a nod

The words you choose to say reflect who you are.  They can create a positive or negative reaction in the world around you. Be thoughtful with your responses. It only takes a moment, and it is a wonderful habit to develop.

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